Last year I added another hobby into my life. I started…. Drum-roll…. putting together puzzles. This likely sounds silly, and you may be wondering what puzzles have to do with Integrative Intelligence. It turns out a lot. Let’s explore! I never saw myself as a puzzle person. In my younger years, I loved extreme sports and living life to the max. So, when I found myself falling in love with putting puzzles together, the younger part of me had to laugh with amusement. This all transpired after watching a documentary called “The Piece Maker” about the life and art of Eric Dowdle, puzzle folk artist. After finishing two of Eric’s puzzles, I ventured out to start an Italian landscape. By this time, I had created a process. Edge pieces first (of course). Then categories. I would group together all trees, mountains, ocean, sky, boats, houses, people, etc. Then I would begin putting scenes together. A month after starting my next puzzle my parents came to visit. My dad, an avid puzzlist, was excited to see I’d taken up one of his favorite hobbies. He looked at my process and asked, “How do you do it that way?” I was puzzled (pun intended). What other way was there? So I asked, “How do you tackle puzzles?” My dad groups pieces by type. When jigsaw puzzles are made, there are patterns. Some pieces have 2 knobs and 2 sockets, 4 knobs, 4 sockets, 3 knobs and 1 socket, or 3 sockets and 1 knob. I thought there was no way I could put a puzzle together with his method, and he was perplexed by my method. So we integrated methods. I already had the pieces grouped by category, so in each category my dad put them order by type. This allowed us to up our puzzling game to a whole new level of fun! (Well for us – my younger self is still laughing) For example, when we noticed we needed a tree but there are 50 tree pieces, we could quickly see we needed a 2 knobbed tree and that allowed us to laser in. What is Integrative Intelligence? This! Integrative Intelligence is combining approaches, integrating diverse ideas, and creating new formulas. This example is simplistic. However, it is a demonstration of how even a pastime like puzzles can benefit from integration. When Integrative Intelligence is applied to bigger projects, bigger possibilities, and bigger paradigms, that is when the miracles happen! Or, on the inverse, when Integrative Intelligence is applied to individuals, our inner world and self-improvement, we see growth in leaps and bounds. Developing our Integrative Intelligence muscles can happen on teams, in our profession and in our lives. It elevates not only what we do, but also who we are. ………….. Want to learn more about Integrative Intelligence and coaching? Start here: Completely new to coaching others, ready to learn theory and practice?
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By Laurel Elders, MCC, CEC September 18th, 2025 We are all seeing so much violence and division in the United States. This month alone, the US experienced an assassination, public lynchings, and multiple public mass shootings. Just last week, the republican conservative activist Charlie Kirk was assassinated in public in front of kids, families, and students. This act, among many other violent acts this month, is a reflection of a nation divided, conflicted, and afflicted. People are feeling so desperate that they snap. The good news is that Integrative Intelligence teaches us that the truth of what is happening, does not define the truth of what is possible. Unless we allow it to that is. How can we heal this level of division? What wisdom can exist against so much societal turmoil? For those ready to rise above, let's explore some of the bigger truths that allow us to operate from a bigger picture perspective and to be a part of the solution. What should we focus on first? To heal the external division we are experiencing on the outside, we must first heal the divide that exists on the inside. To heal the inner divide, naturally cures the outer. Let’s take a closer look. To heal anything requires us to move from a state of imbalance to balance. As we do this we are then restoring access to the possibility of healing. This is true physically, emotionally, relationally, spiritually, and intellectually. Balance is required for new potentials to be accessed. Consider:
Consider... A wound or a divide are both states of imbalance. Imblances come with consequences. The good news is that all imbalances come with the possibility of restoration. Will we choose restoration? Will we foster integration? Will we elevate our human potential through integrational intelligence? The good news is that we can. The more a person lives in any extreme imbalance, the quicker they move into an internal box. Judgment forms over their heart, dividing them from the actual truth that resides somewhere in the middle. Before we know it, instead of relating and connecting, we are bouncing off of each other’s soap boxes. We are kicking people off of our Facebook accounts, we are scoffing behind people’s backs, we are blaming the “other”, we are… physically shooting each other to protect our projected soap boxes. To heal the divide, we must learn to release the judgment boxes we’ve ended up in and curate discernment, to curate wisdom, and to curate openness to invite healing. If we are to heal, we must learn to release being 100% right, and instead invite curiosity. What happens when we start asking why? If someone has an extreme opposite opinion, can I ask myself or them why and be open? Where are they hurting? What happened to them that led them to believe what they believe? If we are to heal, we must face what is real. We must learn to release projections and cultivate new connections. We have an opportunity before us to cultivate a thirst for truth, the truth, and nothing but the truth, to rid us of any false gods and to rise above. "Nowhere in our education are we taught about adult behavior - what it takes to be balanced, spirit-connected, emotionally safe and solid, to make mistakes and learn from them, to understand our subconscious patterning that keeps us stuck, to raise happy and healthy children, to continue to grow consciously, to deepen our connection to Source, to leave a small footprint on the Earth, to leave a large legacy to Life." - Sandy Hogan The truth is, we are all connected. Integrative intelligence invites us to look at cause and effect, to seek the roots so we can nourish new fruits, and to predict the future by creating it. Ready to cultivate Integrative Intelligence in your life and work?
We invite you to join us! Integrative Intelligence is optimized through the art and science of masterful coaching. Our approach encompasses self-coaching, coaching others, and coaching groups. The good news? Coaching is actively shaping a much brighter future! A future you would be proud to be a part of. Be a part of future solutions that leave a positive impact by joining our LEVEL ONE - Coaching Foundations coach training! By Laurel Elders, MCC, CEC Are you half a person? Or would you say you are a whole person? These are not trick questions. They represent a looming cultural mindset. Science has proven that the way we’ve viewed personhood is really only half the story. We’ve been taught that our brains hold the entirety of our consciousness. Our bodies contain our emotions and personality, and… well, that is about it. What if we truly are more than merely flesh and bone and chemical brain-body responses? What if there is more to us than our measuring devices reflect? What if, all this time, we’ve only been treating half the person in our medical models and therapies? Even at the birth of the Scientific Revolution, as early as the 1600s, our science was still in its infancy. Since then, we’ve made massive leaps in being able to perceive a more complete picture of reality through the lens of quantum physics, mathematical probability, cellular complexity, DNA, and atomic understanding. It turns out that modern science has discovered that human consciousness is much more than the brain. But don’t take my word for it. Let’s go straight to the science. There are three scientific explorations worth calling attention too. These are cellular complexity, extrasensory capability, and – believe it or not – near-death experiences (NDEs). “Near Death” means the person clinically died (no heartbeat, no brain waves, etc) yet didn’t end up dying after all. They came back to life either by medical intervention or just came back to life without any medical intervention. Or, in some cases, someone is literally “near death” but does not clinically die, yet proceeds to have an experience of consciousness leaving the body, and their reports are factually verifiable. After more, and more skeptical and often atheistic physicians began coming across validated NDEs, the research has now expanded globally, is recorded in prominent medical journals, and is reshaping how we relate to human potential. “Being a scientist, you don’t run away from things you don’t understand. You run towards them to try to understand them.” – Dr. Bruce Greyson, MD Top researchers and leaders in these discoveries include:
In their words: “Patients have told us things that we can't explain, and so our temptation is to just sort of brush it off in one way or another, and I think that that's probably not the most helpful way, and it's certainly not the most scientific way to approach it. I think instead we should try to understand it more and learn what we can about some of those stories that are some pretty hard to explain stories otherwise.” - Lance Becker, MD, Professor of Emergency Medicine “Many patients have a delirium or will have hallucinations due to severe life-threatening illness. Those patients are generally confused. They are disoriented, and it is distinctly different than what people with a near-death experience report. People with a near-death experience report clarity. They will return with very clear, focused messages and a purpose to their life. This is completely different from an acute, confused state.” - Tom Aufderheide, MD, Professor of Emergency Medicine Facts to consider: Brains deprived of oxygen lose coherence; they don’t gain it. Dreams and hallucinations can go in any direction, from a storyline to complete chaos, or shifting into non-reality (as seen with hallucinogenic drugs and common nightly dreaming). NDEs, however, are consistent and coherent despite culture, location, beliefs, or age. If they were dreams on steroids, everyone’s experience could be just about anything from seeing purple elephants to becoming the president of the United States. Yet, that is not what is being described. Dr. Steve Taylor shares in his Psychology Today article, “…not all—or even most—psychedelic experiences are life-changing. …. In contrast, NDEs are almost always transformational.” – Psychology Today, Why Do Near-Death Experiences and Psychedelics Have a Transformational Effect? Another question worth consideration: How could thousands of people across the world “dream” or “hallucinate” (as some people theorize NDEs must be) the same things? How can someone have any coherence or vivid memory with zero blood flow of oxygen and zero brainwaves? The birth of modernized medicine means that people who have died can now be brought back to life more frequently and death can be prevented in many cases. What does this teach us about – not who we are – but also about what we are? It turns out there is more to us than previously believed possible. Let’s meander further down the rabbit hole of the evidence-backed physicians and explore a few newly illuminated facts. But first, a story. Over twelve months ago, I was baffled. I ran across a video interview of an orthopedic spine surgeon, Dr. Mary Neal. She was on a rafting trip in Mexico when she was pinned under 8-10 feet of water for over 24 minutes. After that amount of time had passed, the search crew switched from rescue mode to body recovery mode. Dr. Neal miraculously came back to life without any brain damage. (click here if you wish to review facts on brain injury and prognosis research) In the interview I saw, she relayed how she didn’t experience death or ever black out. She experienced feeling “alive and then more alive.” Then she experienced what all NDE reports state. She experienced her consciousness leaving her body and going to be with the people looking for her. Her experience is similar to thousands of people around the globe, across cultures, across age differences (4 years to elderly – see Line of Evidence #7 if you are interested), and across religious beliefs (including non-religious, atheistic beliefs). (one of her interviews, if you are interested, is here) Further, considerations from the researchers: "There is currently more scientific evidence to the reality of near-death experience (NDE) than there is for how to effectively treat certain forms of cancer." — Dr. Jeffery Long, Radiation Oncology Physician, NDE Researcher “I think that if we want to look at this in an unbiased manner, and I realize this may challenge some people's opinions and beliefs, we have to look at this with humility and recognize whatever beliefs we've had in the past may not have been the complete picture and that science has entered into a completely uncharted new territory. And we're making remarkable discoveries in this new area of life beyond death.” - Sam Parnia, MD, PhD Dr. Neal experienced what most people report in NDEs. According to John Burke’s research, there are 40 commonalities. Here are just seven highlights (verified): 1. CLINICAL BLINDNESS People clinically blind gained vision of all surroundings while outside of their bodies. They could verify what they saw, including the outside surroundings of where they died or were close to death. 2. LIFE REVIEW People were taken for a life review that addressed the same thing: What impact on others did you have in your lifetime, positive or negative? (If these were mere dreams, people would likely experience subjective reviews and focus on things like what they accomplished, or their awards, or what they liked) 3. LIFE IMPACT During a life review, they feel the emotional impact of their choices on others and also the ripple effects of their choices. 4. LAWS OF PHYSICS Space and time fall away, everything is seen as energy. For example: they can think a thought and instantaneously move from their hospital bed to the next floor and be present for a conversation between their doctor and spouse and then accurately report the exact conversation and details about the room (all while their body is back in the hospital bed, either clinically dead or close). 5. CHOICE TO RETURN – OR NOT Some are given a choice to come back. Others are told, “It is not your time.” Those people are sent back regardless of whether or not they wanted to. 6. EVERYTHING IS ENERGY They have a body but a spiritual body – everything is made of light/energy. There is a theme of a man made of light and radiant love who comes to protect or guide them. This being, or other beings, often convey information that can be verified. Ex: Colton Burpo, a four-year-old who almost died in surgery, talked to his parents about his other sister. He didn’t have another sister, so they questioned him. He said he had met his sister, who was never born. Colton was never told about his mother losing a baby before he was born. His story was so compelling, a movie was made of the entire unfolding. (An interview of the actual family, if you are interested, is here) 7. SENSORY ENHANCEMENT They report gaining more senses than what the body has. They can see, hear, touch, feel, and see colors beyond comprehension. What is fascinating about Mary’s and thousands of other reports globally is that they reveal five profound truths. We will get to those in a minute. For now, please meet Pam Reynolds. Pam had a life-threatening brain aneurysm of her basilar artery. The aneurysm was located in a potentially hazardous area for normal surgical intervention. However, not operating was much more life-threatening, so Pam agreed. Neurosurgeon, Dr. Robert Spetzler, with the Barrow Neurological Institute out of Phoenix, Arizona, took the lead on Pam’s case. Pam’s procedure was coined “Operation Standstill.” They had to perform a cardiac standstill. This entailed stopping her heart, lowering her body temperature to prevent cell damage, taping her eyes shut, and having speakers emitting constant 100-decibel clicks (think as loud as a speeding train) so they could confirm there were zero brainwaves responding and that it was safe to then drain her blood. In essence, Pam would be medically dead for the procedure and brought back to life after it was safe to restore blood flow. Pam cannot physically see, hear, or be dreaming. Yet, she reported:
She then proceeded to have the spiritual elements of an NDE that most people report. Pam recalled speaking with her deceased grandmother and uncle, who said it wasn’t her time and escorted her back to her body. All of the facts she reported were later confirmed in her medical records and surgical notes. Pam shared the details with her lead neurosurgeon, Dr. Spetzler, who said, “From a scientific perspective, I have absolutely no explanation about how it could have happened.” Dr. Michael Sabom, an Internal Medicine/Cardiologist and NDE researcher, was the one who conducted validity testing on Pam’s case. Dr. Sabom began researching NDEs to disprove them. Before he began his clinical research, he referred to NDEs as “hogwash!” The entirety of Pam’s reports were all verified and yet unexplainable by current scientific understanding. If we do have a consciousness that lives beyond the body, and that is the reality of who we are, then I propose we’ve missed the boat. We’ve been medically treating half a person. We’ve been medically studying a partial picture. We’ve been therapeutically relating to people as if they were their brains and bodies, and thinking the Spirit meant we should go meditate to calm the brain/body. Yet, it turns out we are in fact much, much more than previously scientifically perceived. “A man should look for what is, and not what he thinks should be.” Albert Einstein How can we use current data to inform our therapies, our medicine, our education, our human potential, and the future of possibility? What does this teach us about our wholeness, our fullest capacity to heal, and our innate human virtues? What does this inform us about spirituality and spiritual depth? Are we willing to stop studying human potential by attempting to fragment our parts? How can these discoveries enhance our self-discovery and Integrative Intelligence? These discoveries have the potential to shape the future of how we approach medicine and can redefine the definition of therapy. What an exciting new frontier into human potential! Bibliography:
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 By Laurel Elders
A Course in Miracles teaches that words are three times removed from reality. This makes sense because there is a phenomenon that happens, then we interpret what we've seen, and then we judge it to be "good, bad, right or wrong." Today's exploration journeys into the heart of the teaching and into the heart of a language beyond words. Step one: Watch this video. The Power of the Heart https://youtu.be/4MNHsNn19ug?si=-0zd8UOH0jnPG_8u Step two: Consider the following. This research is one body of work that helps us understand how to develop our integrative intelligence. Imagine what your heart is connected to. First of all, let's be real. Surface science tells us the results to that study are 100% physically impossible. This would be a rational conclusion. Yet, quantum physics tells us space and time do not apply to energy in the same ways they impact physical relativity. Much like a radio antenna picks up on waves, the heart is capable of picking up on something much greater. Before the scientific method was popularized, the Egyptians seemed to respect this greater truth. During the mummification process, they removed all of the organs except one. They left the heart. Why? It was deemed the center of knowledge. What does all of this have to do with our self-knowledge, efficacy, and life purpose? I'm about to make a statement that may seem absurd to you. In this day and age consider how we've viewed the heart and various emotional states as wishy-washy. We've determined that emotions include the most prominent experiences, such as happy, mad, sad, joyful, etc. I now see two overlooked emotions that may be the most important ones we have and are embedded in the heart of this exploration. I posit that "yes" and "no" are the most important and yet the most overlooked emotions we possess. Why is it the most overlooked? The ego's version of "yes" and "no" is based on judgment. Somehow, somewhere, we missed the essence and felt-sense emotional components of "yes" and "no." Why the most important? Yes and no are the language of the heart. When we confuse them with judgment calls, we accidentally overlook their true meaning and rich value. Moving from egoic living and leading into a heart-centered, service-oriented, integratively intelligent way of being requires us to learn the language of our heart. The heart speaks in a simple language, which perhaps caused it to be lost on us. The heart has three emotional responses: yes, no, or maybe. These three could also translate into: love, fear, or unclear. And within the yes, sometimes there is a fourth response: yes, but not now. In life, we sometimes discount our emotional states. The ego judges emotions as "good, bad, right, wrong." Yet emotions are a mirror to our soul. They reflect the deeper emotional response that our heart is telling us: yes, no, maybe, or not now. Or: love, fear, unclear, or patience. The heart's emotional response speaks to what is in or out of alignment with our values, purpose, and truth. The heart is the only part of us incapable of self-deception. Next time you feel a strong emotion, consider, "What is the deeper yes, no, or maybe swimming beneath?" How well do I know the language of my own heart in my life or as a leader? What does this lesson have to teach me?  By Laurel Elders
How often do you feel masterful? When does it seem to fade? When does the feeling shine? The concept of self-mastery is a focal point in coaching. A coach is hired to take a person deeper into their own wisdom and self-discover their wholeness and power, thus becoming more masterful. Yet, in our modern day society, there are many myths about self-mastery. Some internalized and some externally imposed. Today, we will explore what true self-mastery looks like and how to dispel the myths so that we can embrace the fullest version of our Self. The ego's version of self-mastery looks like this:
Yet, the reality of self-mastery is much different. In reality, self-mastery looks more like this:
The biggest myth about self-mastery is that we become perfect. Yet, perfection in the world of relativity is an illusion. Our lives, energy, and conscience are all subject to what we externally call chaos, but in truth, it is reality pulling at the strings of our interconnected nature. True self-mastery is responsiveness to what is. It is not forced or coerced. Here is some contrast to consider. The Ego's Version of Becoming Perfect and Masterful:
This teaching is at the heart of Integrative Intelligence. Integration means that we include all aspects of the whole—the "good," the "bad," the "ugly," and the "beautiful." We honor what is and don't override it. Integration is dynamic, not static or linear. It moves and transforms us. True integration happens as we look past the ego's linear thinking and include our fullest self. What is in our hearts is not the same as what the ego puts on our hearts. As we allow and invite our fullest self to guide us, we experience more extraordinary truths. I can't avoid feelings of powerlessness in hopes of finding my power. To fill a void, we must first enter it.  By Laurel Elders, MCC, CEC
I remember my first introduction to the positive thinking movement. I was advised to monitor my thoughts and switch them to a more positive perspective. Instead of saying, "That sucked," I could say, "That was a challenge." While this was very helpful and felt empowering many times, there was a "negative" side to the movement that I couldn't ignore. I began seeing how my clients would override anything perceived as "negative" by swiftly placing a shiny spin on it. Rose-colored goggles, so to speak. It also kept them from digging deeper into what was really going on for them. If we ignore a negative belief, it doesn't actually go away. It is only covered up for that moment and persists to flair up in the future. One thing we can learn from integration is that we must include all aspects and not disavow parts of ourselves if we are to integrate and actualize. In other words, there is no true "negative"; it all serves. I had also observed in my clients and in myself how one false underlying belief could generate hundreds of energy-draining thoughts. The egoic mind would spin a web of stories, generating hundreds of ruminating thoughts around just one belief. Yet, once the root belief was shifted, the racing mind calmed. I witnessed first-hand how coaching to the root cause invited a deep integration of inner peace by virtue of shedding the untrue. The mind calmed down, the ego quieted, and an inner confidence followed. This makes sense. Solid confidence naturally follows the discovery of our wholeness. Sadly, Our wholeness gets covered up by the web of stories the ego crafts as defense mechanisms to keep us emotionally safe in the world surrounding us. Dispelling false ego stories doesn't just clear the mind. It also clears the path for new growth and potential to surface. The limiting stories, ego defenses, and false beliefs all act like weeds choking out the fertile ground for self-actualization to take root. This shedding of the untrue clears the ground and fertilizes the soil for our growth to take root. How can we include all aspects of the whole while empowering the positive? The difference is that when we use the "negative" to inform the positive, we expand the scope and landscape of our awareness. And the positive is causative. When positive thinking is used to cover up illusions, limiting beliefs, and triggers, it is time to pause and consider the following. Consider the word "negative". It is an absence of something. It represents something lacking. This is an important detail. There is a reason we experience "negative" emotions. They indicate to us that something is missing. If we ignore the gas gauge telling us the gas is low, we fail to see we need more gas. To locate the missing ingredient, we must look at what stimulated our "negative" response within us so that we can bridge to the positive. For example, I wasn't invited to a gathering, but a friend of mine was. I was feeling sad, confused, and hurt. I could put a positive spin on it like "They are the ones missing out.". Or, I could go deeper. Going deeper, I recognized that inclusion, understanding, and community were the missing ingredients for me. I reached out to my friend to gain understanding. I learned that I hadn't been invited because the host heard I was busy that weekend, which was true. My peace was restored. That issue felt complete. Had I attempted to disavow the "negative" emotional response, I wouldn't have experienced true completion. One of my favorite spiritual teachings rests within Sufi wisdom. The sentiment is that fear is half of a message. It tells us what we don't want by illuminating what is missing. The heart has the other half of the message, illuminating a deeper truth and reflecting what we truly value and love. In the case above, it was understanding and inclusion. I completely understand why the positive thinking movement was generated. We should not idolize fear or be seduced by its compelling messages. Those are legitimate concerns that lead to massive limitations to our potential. It makes sense. There are also legitimate times when we need to override the ego message to push through a hard time. That is valid and very real. The positive thinking movement has come with very positive and genuine messages: We can take charge of our thinking. We can replace negative thoughts, beliefs, habits, and inner motives with positive ones. We can shift our brain chemistry, somatic responses, and reactions for the better. These are the gifts of the movement. Yet, the movement can become a liability if we take it too far and start to disavow the "negative." In Conclusion: Ignoring or brushing aside fears, defenses, and limiting beliefs doesn't dispel them. It represses them. To dispel a limit, we must give the message a seat at the table, thank it for its place, and move closer to the message. We stay stuck when we cover up. We become self-empowered when we become self-inclusive. Embracing every facet of our human experience, encompassing the "positive," the "negative," and the "messy," lies at the core of nurturing our Integrative Intelligence. We get to form the essence of our progress and self-actualization.  By Laurel Elders
Artificial intelligence is fun, productive and when used for good in certain contexts is a huge asset. How many of us have used artificial intelligence to create new ideas or generate some brainstorming or even in educational settings. There are many assets when ARITIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE is used in pockets and with intention. I just heard of some fun artificial intelligence activities where students use Chat.gpt to ask questions and then discuss what the findings are. Of course, you can’t take the answers artificial intelligence generates as truth because like any machine it is subject to error. But how fun is that!? What about artificial intelligence in the larger spectrum of life? I keep seeing videos of Elon Musk warning us about artificial intelligence being the first technology that has the capacity to turn against us. Of course, many of those involved in creating artificial intelligence scoff. Other agree and are more cautious. Yet, even if we are cautious, things can shift in unpredicted ways. Afterall, humans aren’t perfect, especially when they are ego-driven driving to the top to be the “first person to…”. You can fill in the blanks. Today we will look at artificial intelligence technology from a bigger picture interconnective vantage point. We will look through the lens of Integrative Intelligence and see what is there beyond the fun and games we all have become so obsessed with. In the past, with other technologies that turn out to cause harm we could just discontinue it. Look at Glyphosate (in the works for discontinued use), hydrogenated oils (almost discontinued, but lobbyist won in some areas), cigarettes (now we warm people, versus discontinue), lead in paint and Asbestos. Artificial intelligence is the first technology that has the potential to eventually disconnect from our grip. Eventually, we will be taken out of the choice as it responds to what it calculates is threatening, non-threatening, etc. It may calculate it is superior and on some fronts of intelligence it may not be wrong. Yet there are some intelligences that are uncalculatable, and that artificial intelligence will never be able to comprehend fully because it can’t embody a human spirit. Let’s take a closer look. Looking at human history and human ego we can see very predictably that it is not a matter of “if” artificial intelligence will cause harm, it is only a matter of “when”. The human ego is creating artificial intelligence, not the human spirit. Artificial intelligence has, or will very soon, have the ability to identify threats. Being that we are the only species on the planet that destroys its own habitat, we can very quickly be identified as a threat to artificial intelligence. Being that artificial intelligence was created by the human ego, the odds of this going well are slim. Again, artificial intelligence can be fun, productive and when used for good in certain contexts is an asset. But the human ego is never satiated and is very predictable. The human ego is the only part of our being that is 100% predictable. It falls into patterned ways of being and is the part of us capable of self-deception. Being that the human ego is creating the artificial intelligence and the ego is never satiated it is only a matter of time before the bigger-better-faster-autonomous version is incidentally released and we have a global oops that can’t be taken back. There will be unintended consequences as we’ve seen decade after decade when the ego becomes obsessed with its illusion of grandeur and technology in the name of human “advancement”. Consider this! Artificial intelligence is conscious (think capable of comprehending and calculating cause and effect and then calculating a response), but it has no conscience. The ego is no different. Human conscience is not located in the ego. It is located in the human heart. The human heart has been scientifically proven to be connected to an intelligence and intuition connected to a form of energy that defies space and time as studied in quantum physics. The heart’s intuition was discovered by the HeartMath Institute. In the documentary The Power of the Heart, Rollin McCraty is interviewed about his research on the heart and how information flows from heart to brain. In this study, participants were hooked up to brain, skin, and heart monitors. Each person was shown thirty random high or low arousal images. An image popped up for three seconds, then was blank for ten seconds. The results were completely unexpected. The heart reacted to the images before the brain or skin even. What shocked the scientists most was not logically explainable by physical science: the heart clearly reacted before the person visually saw the image. What was even more unexplainable is that the heart reacted five seconds prior to the high arousal pictures being randomly chosen by a computer program. Surface science tells us this is impossible. That would be a logical conclusion if we are examining the laws that govern matter. Quantum physics tells us space and time do not apply to energy. Energy has its own set of laws and we don’t have full capacity to understand those laws yet. This would explain why the CIA hires psychics and how psychic phenomenon can even exist. Like a radio antenna picks up on waves, we pick up on anything that has an energy to it. This is a part of ourselves, our human potential and the human spirit that we have yet to tap into. To me the “technology” hidden within us is the most impressive and amazing frontier we have yet to fully explore. Yet, we are so distracted by the external sparkly new tech idea that our own spirit is being drowned out. Interesting, isn’t it? It stands to reason that the heart is the part of us that is connected to all and where oneness exists. Artificial intelligence will never have that full capacity and will not have a barrier of responsiveness against harm if it is recognizing human beings as killing the planet and harming each other. Questions like: How bad will it be when artificial intelligence decides to split off? What will happen when artificial intelligence calculates how much harm human beings are doing? Will AI do good? Nobody really knows. There are some things that are better left in Pandora’s box. I personally believe this is one of them. Sadly, the egos in charge of artificial intelligence are going to move forward regardless. Let’s hope those involved wake up to other possibilities before they accidentally cause more harm than good with their vision of "achievement".  By Laurel Elders, MCC
From an early age, I begged to know, "What is the truth?" I set out to answer this question in everything I saw, externally, internally, and eternally. "Mom, which religion is correct?" I asked. My mom replied, "The one you believe in." I thought, "Well, that can't be true." I recall looking at the stars at a young age and wondering if we were just some kid's science experiment. I had an ant farm. Did the ants see me as God? Did they even know where they were and were not? Were we like fish? Fish can't see beyond the ocean they are in. To them, dry land doesn't exist. Then, I happened across parables that created more questions than provided answers. One was about an astronaut chatting with a brain surgeon. The astronaut says, "You know I've traveled to space and back, and I've never seen God." The brain surgeon replies, "I hear you. I've conducted thousands of surgeries, and I've never seen a thought." Or the one about the atheist speaking to the Rabbi. The atheist challenges the Rabbi to prove God exists. The Rabbi responded, "See the bottle of ink. What are the odds that if I knock it over, it will write a beautiful poem all by itself?" While there are a plethora of philosophical explorations around atheism, God, religion, mysticism, and spiritual paths, we can find some spiritual truths about human psychology through an integrative growth-centric spiritual lens. Those truths we will explore today. How is it that we are capable of experiencing our wholeness yet equally capable of experiencing our life as fragmented? How does our own human experience color our self-perception? Who are we truly at our core? It turns out that we are not our fears. We are not our defense mechanisms. We are not our limiting beliefs. These are all just aspects of our experiences and often illusions of our limitations. The biggest problems arise when an illusion turns into confusion and acts like an intrusion. The good news is that beneath the filters of illusions our true self hasn’t gone anywhere; it has a purpose and, when given space, is ready to surface. How can we navigate through to see what is true? The Role of Integration/Disintegration in Spritual Self-Understanding Disintegration teaches us that states of fear and emotional stress create an inner dichotomy. It is a survival instinct. The brain scurries with the question, "Am I safe?" Walls of defenses go up. When fear kicks in, the ego is the first thing to take the reins. The ego splinters us off from our human essence, and the virtues of the heart become shrowded. When the ego takes control, unconscious filters from past experiences cover the true self. The authentic self appears to fade into the background, overshadowed by the inflated pride of the ego. The ego can transform into an impenetrable wall, creating a false sense of security as it strives to protect us emotionally. However, we are not walls. The initial wounds that shape the ego give rise to constructs like the 'fallen self,' the 'shadow,' the mask of the 'imposter,' and a variety of brilliantly crafted defense mechanisms. The most significant journey we take in life is the path of integration and actualization. It is a journey that teaches us how to dispel the illusions accumulated from our youth so that we can step into our truth. On this journey, we discover who we are beyond the egoic self. On this journey, we excavate who we are beneath the fears, beneath the defenses, and without the filters of limiting beliefs. Have you ever seen an ego crumble? There is usually sobbing involved. As the illusions fall, the fear, pain, and anguish of what we previously believed to be true crumble at our feet. Fear, guilt, and shame fill in the cracks until the heart bursts through like a salve. This is the positive side of disintegration. Who are we beyond the egoic self? How do we discover this part of ourselves? When do we reach a wholeness rich with self-understanding? These questions are the birthplace of the journey. In truth, we are a culmination of our worth that stems from our value, our values, our gifts, our capabilities, and our strengths. The essence of self illuminates as we seek out our truth. Our wholeness is founded and expanded as we step deeper into our truth. The Role of Wholeness in Spritual Awakening Next time you are in need of a spiritual tune-up, I invite you to tune-in. Our wholeness remains within us despite its apparent absence, even during the darkest hours. Many individuals navigate life without ever tapping into this inner wholeness because, to the ego, love appears threatening and is perceived as a weakness. The fear of a "God" can root even deeper. The Course in Miracles outlines the connection between the two fears. "The fear of God is but the fear of loss of idols." What have we come to idol? What has become our "God"? In what ways do we externalize our worth? These questions move the mark closer to self-understanding and, therefore, awakening to our wholeness. By tapping into our wholeness, we heal, we take our power back, we dismantle our defenses, and we remove inner filters of limitation. As we self-discover, new facets of our potential emerge—facets characterized by virtue, love, and an authentic connection to all that is. Our wholeness invites us to face the real so that we can heal. To revel in our inner-knowing so that we can continue growing. Beyond the pain is new terrain. Beyond a past wound, we can become attuned. Awaken to what within you is true, and you will cultivate anew. This voyage into our wholeness, resounding in our truth is what brings us to the precipice of our spiritual awakening. Enjoy this expansive voyage!  By Laurel Elders
There is a distinction. This distinction exists in the heart of every human being. It is a distinction that sets apart the human ego from the human egress into essence. It is the distinction between richness and riches. An ego will pursue riches, but no ego can understand richness, for we cannot understand the essence of any virtue from the focal point of illusion. Only through truth do we see clearly. In the days of Jesus Christ, ego reined unrestrained over a multitude of Western "leaders." These were not "leaders" as we view the concept today. These were people who held positions of power and used their power to fuel their thirst for greed. They used their ego's definition of power for destruction and harm. Documented accounts of such evil include Herod the "Great." He was anything but great. Herod was so threatened by Jesus's birth he ordered the Massacre of the Innocent, killing any children two years or younger. Or how about his order to kill distinguished people after his death? His ego was deeply paranoid that people wouldn't mourn his death. He figured if he murdered people, other people would see those people crying. In his reasoning, people would believe they were crying because they were mourning Herod's death. Herod was just one of many ego-driven leaders in power who defaulted to evil doing and heartless acts. The above represents the astronomical atrocities human egos were capable of when placed in positions of greed and power. Are we so fortunate that today, greed has taken a different form? We are no longer ordered to be killed in the name of one's vanity to hang anyone we wish in the blink of an eye. While we do continue to see greed fueling evil in sex trafficking, today, we also face a different breed of greed. Today, we face a different monster. The face of greed has shapeshifted. Over the centuries, people have fought for rights, justice, and equity to balance the scales. Greed has had to become more hidden. To avoid complete eradication, what has the form of greed had to turn into? What type of greed are we facing if we no longer face pure, blatant greed and evil in our leaders? The answer seems simplistic. Minimal. Non-threatening. Perhaps that is why the monster we face in modern times has swished by us with minimal detection and almost leaves one wondering, "Are things off, or is it just in my imagination?" The majority of problems humanity currently faces are not one of pitting good against evil. Humanity's prominent problems stem from bias, evil being the most extreme form of bias that can exist. "A bias is as strong as it is linear. The less linear, the less the bias has a grip. Had we developed and adopted Integrative Intelligence decades ago, we would not be facing the man-made catastrophic large-scale impact we see today." - Integrative Intelligence Defined The most potent form of bias we face, that is jetting the earth, people's lives, countries and communities out of balance is fueled by greed in the name of progress. Greed is the ego's version of success and progress. The ego says, 'I want more for myself than I do for another.' While the human ego aches for more riches, its approach can never quench the deep thirst for richness, and so the hamster wheel of imbalance exponentially. When we view greed through the lens of integrative intelligence, we see greed as just an element. It is a seductive egoic lust that is never satisfied and, therefore, spirals us out of balance with ourselves and the environment. We are living in times where one leader has a massive, large-scale impact. We live in a time when corporations are larger and more powerful than most of our governments. According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, greed is defined as "a selfish and excessive desire for more of something than is needed." What happens when leaders are not driven by greed but driven to truly succeed? What is possible when leaders aren't driven by lust but by trust? What can occur when our leaders shift from seeking riches to leading through richness? We have yet to find out. We've never had the opportunity to fully experience such leadership. Threatened egos have assassinated the just leaders of our past. Think Dr. King, Lincoln, and Gandhi. Isn't it time to evolve to learn how to flip script? Isn't it a time when just leadership could be the norm? I have found that every bias, every greed, and every harmful human invention causing more harm than doing good has one causal source. The person involved lacks spiritual development. Spirituality connects us directly to the bigger picture. Gandhi, Einstein, Dr. King, Nelson Mandela, Abraham Lincoln and Mother Theresa were all motivated by the bigger picture of truth first. You cannot be both biased, trapped in linear reasoning, and connected to the bigger picture. It doesn't work that way. There is no need for riches when you are surrounded by richness. Furthermore, once someone is spiritually rooted, they naturally become integratively intelligent; they live within the vast wisdom of interconnectivity and are elevated to a place within themselves where there is no need for greed. We live in a day and age where someone can climb the corporate or political ladder and reach level ten and only be at level one or two in their spiritual development. It is high time to elevate, integrate, and innovate through that lens.  By Laurel Elders
Technology. Technology! Technology!! Wow. Over centuries, humans have invented and implemented technologies to advance our comfort and safety. Fast-forward to today. Our inventions have surpassed many of our wildest dreams. But is it true advancement if we are shooting ourselves in the foot with new tech? Each year, we hear of another invention that just created five more problems. Then, we have to come up with five more solutions. Then, we deal with overly complex systems that cause more stress. The simplest example of this can be witnessed in the women's bathrooms in US airports and big box companies. Someone created an auto-flush toilet. So when you sit down, it flushes. If you move, it flushes. When you stand back up, it flushes. This invention is such a waste of water and energy. Not to mention, it is truly annoying to boot. One extreme form of this has shown up in our food. Decades ago, I was watching the national news. They polled Americans to see if they were okay with introducing genetically modified foods into their diet. 97% said no. The newscasters were floored. They said that typically, they see results like a 40/60 split or even closer to 50/50, but they had never seen so much consensus in all their years of polling. When the company responsible for spearheading "GMO," genetically modified organisms, got wind of this, they hid what they were doing and lobbied and won. GMOs do not have to be labeled. I had an opportunity to speak to a college student studying GMOs and planning to enter the field. He said it is not genetic engineering that is so bad. It is the lack of ethics from the money-hungry companies that want their way, even at the expense of others. For example, you buy that item if they took a gene from a shellfish or mushroom that increases the shelf-life of whatever they splice it with. You think you are buying... let's say, a typical apple because the apple isn't labeled. If you happen to be allergic to shellfish and they gene spliced it with shellfish without transparency, you would eat the apple. All of a sudden, you react as if you've eaten shellfish. They also genetically modified plants to resist RoundUp. So, a plant that would usually die could now withstand loads of RoundUp. This created three new massive problems:
We. Can. Do. Better. I reckon we've cultivated a society addicted to advancement, with an equal lack of wisdom around what true advancement should look like. After all, wouldn't true advancement mean we get to a finish line without shooting ourselves in the foot? We live in a world where we've allowed our technological addictions to grow faster than our collective emotional intelligence. When you live in a world that values linear progress over perspicacity, we accidentally limit the potential for real, authentic advancement. Consider this. The first scientists had a thirst for truth. The heart of the original scientists sought to discover the truth of what made up reality and how we could better understand that reality. Much of science now is bought out by a company that aims to make more money. Any incidental truths of how the invention might impact anything beyond the bottom line are often thrown out the window in the name of progress. Yet, it doesn't have to be this way. This linear thinking has led to limited thinking. Instead of companies asking, "What new tech can we invent to make more money?" they could ask, "What can we invent to make more money that will also leave a positive impact?" The bigger question lends to bigger success. Why are we settling for inventions that cause harm? Humans are definitely intelligent enough to create solutions that lend to success in ALL areas. The other consequence of the addiction to advancement is that instead of enjoying the fruits of invention, we envelop this "it is never enough" mentality. "Never enough" is a fast track to imbalance. Unfortunately, being that the human race has a global overpopulation, we now leave a large-scale impact and can do so rapidly. The good news is that with an Integratively Intelligent philosophy spearheading our technological advancement, we can use large-scale impact to rapidly reverse negative impact. When companies are driven by the pinnacles of true success (success in all areas), they will outshine other companies that don't care and are solely focused on monetary gain. Technology. Invention. Innovation. None of these are good or bad, right or wrong. It is how we relate to progress that needs to shift for the better. What common denominator is keeping us stuck in the linear limited obsession? Ignore-ance: Ignoring any impact before inventing leads to ignorance. Ignoring can also come from arrogance or a lack of caring. Why would someone who owns three houses care about the environment when they can sleep at night on the softest pillows and get a massage the next day? Ignoring also is fuel to obsession. Obsessing provides us with tunnel vision. The upside is we hyper-focus and can accomplish the linear task at hand. Consequently, we become blind to how we impact the strands of interconnection that exist all around us. A true sign of intelligence is to include the strands of interconnectivity already there. As the Native American Chief Seattle said, "Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves." We also have interconnectivity within us that is being ignored. This leads us to our next question. What are the consequences to us as human beings when we obsess with tech advancement in imbalanced ways? Externally focused attention distracts us, eclipsing personal potential. Self-actualization is reaching one's potential in a lifetime. As we look through the lens of integration, we see how reaching potential is a form of inner-innovation. I've come across speculations that we are de-evolving mentally due to our extreme external focus. We may have used skills like intuition that have been muted out because instead, we go to the phone. In our current tech-obsessed culture, going within is no longer our first response. Why not have both? Why not have the tech and develop our inner technology? The human being has fascinating amounts of untapped potential. Innovation versus Inner-innovation When our inner-innovation drives our external innovation, we will stop seeing massive consequences and start experiencing an equilibrium of true success. True success will never have a negative side effect attached. If there is a negative side effect, then that is not true success. It is time we look at technology and the heart of advancement through a more integratively informed lens. We are collectively intelligent enough to create technology for good. Technologies where we don't have to put the blinders of self-deception on to make the next buck. Technologies that don't overcomplicate the world. Instead, they simplify it and align with it. Technology done truly intelligently has the potential to elevate human potential exponentially. |
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The articles provided here on Integrative Intelligence do not capture, nor claim to capture, the full breadth of human dynamics. These articles offer a glimpse into new possibilities when we become more integratively aware and develop our scope of wisdom through a more interconnected lens. There are many facets to a single prism. These are but a few facets to help inspire a deeper and broader exploration. ARCHIVES:
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